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上課時間!彭浩翔《愛的地下教育》
近日收到PR送來的一本新書,希望與大家分享一下!
彭浩翔《愛的地下教育》
今次以讀後感出發,希望大家看完我的讀後感,會感受到作者的一些獨特觀點,最希望的是某些還未決定買書的朋友,在看過我的分享後,會有買書的衝動;已決定買書的,明天書展就馬上去買吧。
多位明星名人推介,部份更為此書寫了推薦序。
先說說我對彭導的認識,是由《買兇拍人》開始,之後一直都有留意他的電影,好像是《破事兒》、《公主復仇記》等,題材特別,不是一般港產片的情節,是最吸引我的原因,最近看的是和某人一起看的《維多利亞一號》。(我還邊看邊吃漢堡包,哈哈)
小克為作者畫了一隻熊貓代替每個回答的下款,看了作者的自序你就會明白畫的原因。
《愛的地下教育》之課程簡介: 此書是以讀者一問,作者一答的專欄結集成書之作,以愛情問題最多,但亦有些搞笑又無聊的問題。好看之處是彭導的回答出人意表,文字搞鬼,比喻生動又到肉,一針見血,講中死穴,看完後會令你對愛情或生活有另一個角度的見解!
當中我最欣賞的是作者的回答明顯地是花了很多心思,每篇都有他的獨到意見或令人會心微笑的精境位,而且結集成書的部份回答都經過修改,篇幅亦重新編排過,之前有追看專欄的讀者看此書後也會有新鮮感。
《愛的地下教育》之課後感想: 被選中的讀者問題,大多是時下男女常見的愛情疑難,相信大家可以在書中找到自己的影子,不妨自行代入,去上一課愛的地下教育(以下節錄了3句,與大家分享一下):
「犯賤沒相干,重要的是犯得開心,在過程中找到快樂,不用急。」 一般人認為犯賤是不應該的,不快樂的。不過作者卻認為犯賤可找到快樂。 某程度上,每個人也總在某個地方或時期不能自制地犯賤(包括我),我認為只要當時覺得犯賤比不犯賤快樂,就可以安心地去繼續犯賤。(不過我覺得最好還是要設定一個犯賤期,犯夠了就move on吧!)
「相逢恨晚症後群(So Sad to Meet Late Syndrome,簡稱SSMLS)。」 我看這書時,是先看題目,再揀選有興趣的去看,(其實作者在自序的部份有推介一個閱讀順序建議…是我選擇了我自己的看書方法)。 必需承認,我是「相逢恨晚症後群」病患者,有好幾次經歷都令我覺得錯在「時間不對」,看過這篇之後,作者點醒了我。「相逢恨晚後群症」的成因不是對象(或自己)不會不敢不能,最後答案其實是「不想」,只要客觀地看,這個答案早就顯然易見,只是大家都不想去面對現實,為自己找一些藉口罷了。
「最後答案是:你又小器又蠢。」 年屆中女(對我來說,25歲已是中女)的我,已不會有這篇之中的問題,因為我明白到了這個年紀,要為工作及將來的人生而努力,我不會滿足於相處時間的quantity,因為我更著重的是quality。 我選這篇在此推介,是因為不少沉迷戀愛的朋友(不論男女,不過女性較為嚴重),都會作出一些又小器又蠢的行為或思想,最後影響了雙方的感情。希望大家看了這篇後,要好好記住,絕對終生受用。
P.S. 我一直都想在blog上寫一些感性點的文章,多得收到PR M小姐的《愛的地下教育》,才讓我有機會借題發揮,寫了這篇夾雜一點個人觀點的blog。 同時,希望作者不會介意有人以這樣粗糙的文字去寫的這篇讀後感(如果有機會看到的話)。 最後,謹祝新書大賣,繼續拍好戲!